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When Asking for Fresh Fries Makes You Nervous: Learning to Recognise and Express Your Feelings and Needs
If something as simple as asking for fresh fries makes you nervous, keep reading. This blog explores why it can feel difficult to notice and express what you feel and need, especially if youâve spent years putting others first. Learn how to gently reconnect with yourself, why your emotions matter, and how to begin honouring your needs, even in small ways.
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Are You a "Fixer"? The Hidden Link Between People-Pleasing and Fixing People
đ¶ Bob the Builder, can you fix it?đ¶ For some of us, that question feels a little too familiar. If youâre always the one smoothing things over or solving everyoneâs problems, you might be stuck in the fixer role. Letâs talk about why itâs exhausting, how itâs linked to anxious attachment and people-pleasing, and how to stop carrying emotional weight that isnât yours.
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Canât Stop Overthinking? Hereâs Why Your Brain Wonât Chill
You get into bed and your brain starts spiralling. You leave a social event and replay every conversation. You wake up and immediately dive into your to-do list. Sound familiar? If you're a millennial woman who tends to overthink, people-please, and struggle with anxious attachment, this blog is for you. From understanding why your mind works this way to learning practical ways to calm it, weâll unpack the psychology of overthinkingâand how to finally get some peace.
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People-Pleasing Starts as Parent-Pleasing
People-pleasing often starts as parent-pleasing. Learn how childhood dynamics shape adult patterns, and why itâs time to break the cycle.
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Understanding Boundaries: What They Are and Why They Matter
This blog breaks down what boundaries really are, the different types you need in your life, and practical ways to set them (without guilt).
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Say No at Work Without Feeling Guilty (or Over-Explaining)
Struggling to say no at work without feeling guilty? Youâre not alone. Many people-pleasers find themselves over-explaining, overcommitting,
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Managing Holiday Anxiety: Tips for People-Pleasers Who Overthink Everything
You can reduce stress, manage expectations, and cope with holiday anxiety in a way that actually lets you enjoy the season.
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People-Pleaser: Definition, Signs, Causes and Dangers Explained
People-pleasing is a term thatâs often used, but what does it truly mean? For many millennial women, it feels like second nature: putting...
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Why Millennial Women are Choosing Psychotherapy to Overcome Self-Doubt and People-Pleasing
Psychotherapy helps millennial women build self-trust, set boundaries, and prioritise their own needs without guilt. T
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